Reviewed · SHINJUKU TOURS
All We Can Drink and Make Friend Can Come Alone Party in Shinjuku
Shinjuku can be a tough place to enter alone after dark. This Friday night social party gives you a simple way in: show up at EXBAR TOKYO plus, choose a color wristband, and use games and shared drinks to start talking with people from Japan and other countries.
I like the color-coded wristbands, which give you a clear opening line instead of forcing awkward introductions. I also like the standing format, since you can move around, switch conversations, and find people who want language practice, casual fun, dating, or another kind of connection.
The main drawback is that this is a social event, not a guided tour of Shinjuku. It can feel noisy or uneven depending on the night, and the 2.5-hour session may not suit you if you prefer quiet bars or a fixed seat.
Key points at a glance

- Unlimited alcoholic drinks from 7:30 to 10 PM: The drinks are included in the $70 fee, so you can focus on meeting people instead of paying for each round.
- Color wristbands make introductions easier: Orange signals fun, green language friends, pink singles, yellow same-gender conversation, and blue lets you write your own purpose.
- EXBAR TOKYO plus in Shinjuku: You spend the full event at one bar, with no transport between stops.
- Uno and Jenga break the ice: These simple games give you something to do while conversations get started.
- A useful choice for solo visitors: You can arrive alone and still have a built-in reason to talk with Japanese locals and international participants.
- Friday evening timing: The party runs from 7:30 PM to 10 PM, leaving the rest of the night open for Shinjuku.
Why this Shinjuku party works for solo visitors

The hardest part of a solo night out is often the first five minutes. You enter a bar, scan the room, and wonder where to stand. This event removes some of that friction. You have a set place, a start time, simple games, and a wristband that tells other people what kind of conversation you hope to find.
That matters in Tokyo, where language differences can make a casual introduction feel more formal than it needs to be. You do not need fluent Japanese to take part. The event is designed around meeting Japanese locals and people from abroad, with language practice built into the social side of the evening.
I see the wristband system as the most useful detail. You choose one color according to your purpose:
- Orange for fun time
- Green for language friends
- Pink for singles
- Yellow for talking with the same gender
- Blue for another purpose you can write down
These labels do not guarantee a particular kind of conversation, but they give you an easy starting point. A green band, for example, can lead to a quick question about practicing Japanese or English. An orange band may suit you if you simply want a relaxed night without a specific goal.
The format also helps if you are shy. You can join a game, comment on a move, or ask about someone’s wristband instead of opening with a personal question. That is a small thing, but it can make a big difference when you are alone in a new city.
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What happens at EXBAR TOKYO plus from 7:30 to 10 PM

The whole experience takes place at EXBAR TOKYO plus in Shinjuku. You are not being moved from bar to bar, and private transportation is not included. The venue is near public transportation, which makes arriving and leaving by train or another local connection practical.
The party is a standing event. That setup gives the room a more social feel than a seated dinner, because you can move between groups instead of being tied to one table. It also means you should expect less structure than you would find on a guided sightseeing activity.
At the start, you select a wristband. The color helps you find people with similar intentions, and the event encourages you to use it as a conversation tool. You may find Japanese participants looking to practice English, international participants hoping to practice Japanese, or people who simply want to meet someone new.
Games such as Uno and Jenga give the evening a second focus beyond drinking. I like this part because games create a shared task. You can join a group without interrupting a serious conversation, and the rules are familiar enough that language differences do not stop play.
The schedule runs for about two and a half hours, from 7:30 PM until 10 PM. That is long enough to meet several groups, but short enough to fit into a larger evening in Shinjuku. If you connect with people, you can decide what to do afterward. The event itself does not include a second venue or a formal late-night plan.
The drinks and what the $70 price really covers
The $70 price includes all fees and taxes, along with unlimited alcoholic drinks during the 7:30 to 10 PM party period. That is the main financial value of the experience. You are paying for an organized social setting plus drinks, rather than buying a sightseeing ticket with a drink added on.
The value depends on how you use the evening. If you want several drinks and would otherwise spend a similar amount at a Shinjuku bar, the package can make sense. You are also paying for a reliable meeting point and a social framework that is difficult to create on your own.
If you drink little or do not drink alcohol, the price is harder to justify because the drinks are a central part of the package. The available information specifically covers alcoholic drinks, so you should not assume that unlimited nonalcoholic beverages are included.
You should also remember that the drinks are included only during the scheduled party window. The experience ends at 10 PM, and anything you do afterward is separate. I would treat the included drinks as a bonus to the social event, not as the sole reason to book.
The event has received a 99 percent recommendation rate and a 4.9 rating from 359 reviews. The strongest themes are easy conversation, a relaxed mood, friendly staff, and the chance to meet people from different countries. One attendee especially enjoyed returning for language exchange and finding Japanese and international participants to practice with.
Those details point to a clear strength: the event is built for participation. It is not just a bar where people happen to gather. Games, wristbands, and language practice give you several ways to get involved.
Finding your kind of conversation

You should choose your wristband with some thought. The color system works best when you use it honestly. If you want to practice Japanese or English, green gives you a clear signal. If you want casual socializing, orange is a better fit. If you are interested in meeting someone romantically, pink communicates that aim without requiring a direct announcement.
Yellow is for talking with the same gender, while blue allows you to write a different purpose. That flexibility is useful because not everyone comes to a social party with the same plan. You may be looking for a travel companion, local advice, language help, or simply a friendly drink.
The system can also help you manage your energy. You can start with one group, stay for a while, then move to another. Since the party is standing, you are not stuck beside the first people you meet.
Still, a wristband is only an opening. It does not replace basic social effort. You will get more from the event if you ask questions, join the games, and move around rather than waiting for everyone else to approach you.
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How the games change the mood

Uno and Jenga may sound simple, but that is exactly why they fit this kind of gathering. A complicated activity would slow down conversation. These games require little explanation and let people join or leave without disrupting the whole group.
I would use the games as a bridge rather than the main attraction. Play a round, introduce yourself, and ask where someone is from or what brought them to Tokyo. The activity gives you a few minutes of shared fun, and the conversation can continue naturally afterward.
This is also useful for people with limited Japanese. A game provides visual clues and common rules. You can follow what is happening even if you miss a sentence or two. The evening also encourages practicing Japanese, so small mistakes are part of the point rather than something to avoid.
The games may not appeal to you if you want a polished cocktail bar or a quiet night of conversation. The atmosphere is designed to be active and social. You should expect movement, changing groups, and a certain amount of noise.
The people you are likely to meet

The event attracts a mix of Japanese locals and international participants. The experiences described by the organizer include people from many different countries and backgrounds, along with participants interested in English and Japanese language exchange.
That mix is the reason to book. You can learn about Tokyo from someone who lives there, compare travel plans with another visitor, or talk about daily life in places you have never visited. The conversations are likely to be broad rather than highly focused, so you should come ready to ask simple questions and follow unexpected topics.
The age mix may not be perfectly even. One account described a night where many people were in their 30s. That makes the event a reasonable choice for adults who want more than a student-focused language exchange, but you should not expect a fixed age range.
The event has also received praise for friendly staff and good organization. Quyn was singled out by name for making one evening enjoyable. Staff support matters here because a social event can lose energy if newcomers are left standing alone. The available information suggests that staff help keep the event moving and encourage people to connect.
Practical timing, arrival, and the end of the night

The event is held on Fridays from 7:30 PM to 10 PM. Plan to reach EXBAR TOKYO plus with enough time to find the venue and check in without rushing. The mobile ticket is useful for keeping your booking on your phone.
Because the event takes place near public transportation, you can make your own way there and back. Private transportation is not included, so you should check your route before the evening begins, especially if you plan to continue elsewhere after 10 PM.
The party lasts approximately two hours and 30 minutes. That timing gives you a complete social evening without taking over your entire night. You can book it as your main Friday activity or use it as the first part of a longer Shinjuku outing.
Most people can participate, according to the supplied practical information. The venue is a standing bar, though, so you should think about your comfort with standing and moving around for much of the session. Specific accessibility details are not provided.
Free cancellation is available if you cancel at least 24 hours before the start time. Cancellations or changes made less than 24 hours in advance are not accepted for a refund, and the cut-off uses Tokyo local time.
Who should book this experience

I would recommend this party most strongly to solo visitors who want company but do not want to join a formal sightseeing group. It is also a good fit if you want to practice Japanese or English in a relaxed setting, or if you enjoy meeting people from different countries.
You should book if you like:
- Social events with an easy structure
- Casual games and standing bar settings
- Meeting locals and international participants
- Included alcoholic drinks
- Flexible conversations rather than a fixed program
- A Friday night activity in Shinjuku
You may want to skip it if you prefer a quiet meal, a seated bar, or an activity focused on Tokyo sights. The $70 fee also makes less sense if you do not drink alcohol or do not enjoy group socializing.
Couples can attend, but the setup is especially useful for people arriving alone. Pink wristbands signal singles, yet the event also has colors for friendship, language exchange, and other goals. You should not assume every participant is looking for romance.
Should you book the Shinjuku party?
Book it if your main goal is to meet people, not to see a landmark. The strongest parts are practical: a clear Friday schedule, a central bar location, unlimited alcoholic drinks, wristbands that open conversations, and games that help you join a group without much effort.
The $70 price is fair when you value both the drinks and the organized social setting. It is less attractive if you plan to have little or no alcohol, or if you want a calm evening with guaranteed one-on-one conversation.
For a solo visitor who feels unsure about entering Tokyo nightlife alone, this party offers a useful first step. Go in with an open mind, wear the wristband that matches your purpose, play a game, and give yourself permission to move on from a conversation that is not working. That is how you get the most from the 2.5 hours.
FAQ
Where does the party take place?
The party takes place at EXBAR TOKYO plus in Shinjuku, Tokyo.
When is the experience held?
It is held on Fridays from 7:30 PM to 10 PM.
How long does the party last?
The experience lasts approximately two hours and 30 minutes.
Are drinks included in the price?
Yes. Alcoholic drinks are included on an unlimited basis during the party from 7:30 PM to 10 PM.
Is this experience suitable for someone traveling alone?
Yes. The party is designed for solo visitors and gives you ways to meet Japanese locals and international participants.
What are the wristband colors used for?
Orange is for fun time, green is for language friends, pink is for singles, yellow is for talking with the same gender, and blue lets you write another purpose.
Are games included?
Yes. The event uses games such as Uno and Jenga to help people start conversations.
Is transportation included?
No. Private transportation is not included, though the venue is near public transportation.
Can I cancel for a refund?
Yes. You can receive a full refund if you cancel at least 24 hours before the experience starts. Changes or cancellations made less than 24 hours before the start time are not accepted for a refund.
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